Your relationship has ended.
Now what do you do?
Well you can quietly go crazy, throw tantrums and make everybody avoid you like the plague, feel suicidal, or leave the country.
No? Perhaps the best thing you could do is write down the reasons for the breakdown and try to understand what went wrong.
This is my story.
I do speak from experience but in my case it was because I was a workoholic. I spent so much time trying to give my family everything they wanted I didn`t realise that they wanted a part of me just as much.
My wife at the time was so bored with a life of looking after the kids and the home she eventually started seeing someone who gave her time and attention, unbeknown to me.
I was trying to give my family everything I didn`t have as a kid though, god bless him, my dad worked very hard in a dead end job to do his best for us.
The Main Reasons Relationships Don`t Work.
Over time we tend to stop talking to each other.
In many relationships one partner may dominate the other. Opinions are so important in a relationship and when we stop listening and talking problems start.
It is so important to talk to each other, and just as
important to listen.
One of the main reasons for my marriage breaking up was I was always too tired to talk.
My ex and I get on better now than we ever did after the breakup, mainly because of the kids, but perhaps I started to listen to her and talk about things as I should have before the divorce.
The Results of a breakup
ruin your life.
After my wife and I split up I made a complete hash of things. I hit the bottle very hard, stopped working and became a general pain in the butt to everyone that knew me.
I became depressed and started taking prescription drugs and at one stage decided that life wasn`t worth living and contemplated suicide.
There is a silver lining in every cloud
When you hit rock bottom the only way is up. I managed with a lot of help and good advice to recover from the verge of a serious breakdown in my life. My friends and family talked me out of my depression and helped me realise where I had gone wrong. They also made me realise that it wasn`t the end of the world but it could be a new beginning.
Do You Need Help With Your Problem?
I found great help with a book that I can only describe as a life saver.
It helped me look at life and relationships in a very different way.
It has certainly helped me and my present partner overcome some of our problems.
Click this link to find out how to help your relationship
No? Perhaps the best thing you could do is write down the reasons for the breakdown and try to understand what went wrong.
This is my story.
I do speak from experience but in my case it was because I was a workoholic. I spent so much time trying to give my family everything they wanted I didn`t realise that they wanted a part of me just as much.
My wife at the time was so bored with a life of looking after the kids and the home she eventually started seeing someone who gave her time and attention, unbeknown to me.
I was trying to give my family everything I didn`t have as a kid though, god bless him, my dad worked very hard in a dead end job to do his best for us.
The Main Reasons Relationships Don`t Work.
Over time we tend to stop talking to each other.
In many relationships one partner may dominate the other. Opinions are so important in a relationship and when we stop listening and talking problems start.
It is so important to talk to each other, and just as
important to listen.
One of the main reasons for my marriage breaking up was I was always too tired to talk.
My ex and I get on better now than we ever did after the breakup, mainly because of the kids, but perhaps I started to listen to her and talk about things as I should have before the divorce.
The Results of a breakup
ruin your life.
After my wife and I split up I made a complete hash of things. I hit the bottle very hard, stopped working and became a general pain in the butt to everyone that knew me.
I became depressed and started taking prescription drugs and at one stage decided that life wasn`t worth living and contemplated suicide.
There is a silver lining in every cloud
When you hit rock bottom the only way is up. I managed with a lot of help and good advice to recover from the verge of a serious breakdown in my life. My friends and family talked me out of my depression and helped me realise where I had gone wrong. They also made me realise that it wasn`t the end of the world but it could be a new beginning.
Do You Need Help With Your Problem?
I found great help with a book that I can only describe as a life saver.
It helped me look at life and relationships in a very different way.
It has certainly helped me and my present partner overcome some of our problems.
Click this link to find out how to help your relationship
There is someone who can help.
I have been where you are now.
Sometimes you withdraw into yourself, other times you become aggressive and abusive, usually to the ones who love you and are trying to help.
First off find out the reason, the real reason, for the breakup
Was Infidelity the cause of the breakup?
Was it jealousy or being too possesive?
Physical or mental abuse?
Was money the cause or more importantly the lack of money?
A lack of physical contact or lack of interest in sex?
Do You Want Your Ex Back?
Click Here for the answers to your problems
Once you have got to the bottom of the real problem in the relationship now is the time for action.
Do you want your ex back?
If the answer is yes then you may need help and advice on how to go about it.
You can see a relationship councellor or talk to friends and family.
Private councelling can cost a lot of money.
Friends and family can be too emotionally involved and protective to give good advice.
To get extraordinary success in getting your ex back you need extraordinary advice.
T.W.Jackson is the man
I can`t say enough about this man.
His advice is highly unusual but it works.
He will not lead you down the usual route of leaving your ex alone for a month as most councellors will suggest.
In his book the Magic of Making Up
T.Dub (as he is affectionatly known) shows totally different ways of getting your ex back.
This ex forces relationship genius shows you how to restart the contact with your ex.
He breaks down the emotional barriers that will allow you to start talking again.
The different types of actions he will suggest may seem odd in some cases but have faith they do work.
You will learn a strategy of how to get your ex back as long as you are prepared to work at it.
This is a two way street.
O.K. Let us hit first base, you must want to make this happen.
If your ex partner has met someone else that may not be the total disaster it appears.
How many times have you seen couples break up only to get back together some time later.
T.Dub will show you how to bring a partner back, but as with life this cannot be guaranteed.
It is up to you.
Take Action Today.
Click Here to Listen To The Man Himself.
Sometimes you withdraw into yourself, other times you become aggressive and abusive, usually to the ones who love you and are trying to help.
First off find out the reason, the real reason, for the breakup
Was Infidelity the cause of the breakup?
Was it jealousy or being too possesive?
Physical or mental abuse?
Was money the cause or more importantly the lack of money?
A lack of physical contact or lack of interest in sex?
Do You Want Your Ex Back?
Click Here for the answers to your problems
Once you have got to the bottom of the real problem in the relationship now is the time for action.
Do you want your ex back?
If the answer is yes then you may need help and advice on how to go about it.
You can see a relationship councellor or talk to friends and family.
Private councelling can cost a lot of money.
Friends and family can be too emotionally involved and protective to give good advice.
To get extraordinary success in getting your ex back you need extraordinary advice.
T.W.Jackson is the man
I can`t say enough about this man.
His advice is highly unusual but it works.
He will not lead you down the usual route of leaving your ex alone for a month as most councellors will suggest.
In his book the Magic of Making Up
T.Dub (as he is affectionatly known) shows totally different ways of getting your ex back.
This ex forces relationship genius shows you how to restart the contact with your ex.
He breaks down the emotional barriers that will allow you to start talking again.
The different types of actions he will suggest may seem odd in some cases but have faith they do work.
You will learn a strategy of how to get your ex back as long as you are prepared to work at it.
This is a two way street.
O.K. Let us hit first base, you must want to make this happen.
If your ex partner has met someone else that may not be the total disaster it appears.
How many times have you seen couples break up only to get back together some time later.
T.Dub will show you how to bring a partner back, but as with life this cannot be guaranteed.
It is up to you.
Take Action Today.
Click Here to Listen To The Man Himself.
